B R Nice O.
I try to focus on what I’m getting from being grateful. And it is completely not about giving something to the other person that they deserve or doing something good to them. But about me choosing peace and calm, feeling of goodness and joy of life for myself when I do it. I can still be reserved in expressing my thoughts to the person who doesn’t behave nice, and draw my boundary to limit their presence in my life, but I will for myself find what I am grateful for, even if it is just a lesson I will learn from that person.
