washing dishes for me is relaxing. of course i understand that not everyone feels this way! i know it can be hard to overcome that initial slump of not wanting to do them, especially if youve been dreading it all day! however, i would try to sit down and relax for a short while and then count to five. this will be a motivating step for you to inittiate doing the washing up amd youll be surpised how it works! if not maybe change your routine to do them in the morning, and remember the accomplishmet that comes with it!