Am I a bit of a coward if I have a hard time reading a more raw realistic fiction book (for example, discussions of SA, racism, ethnic cleansing, etc)? It’s not that I can’t read it, it just makes me hesitate for some reason, and I kinda feel bad for feeling as such. How do I power through it easier if I am a bit weak-hearted?

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Fabulous Experts · Accepted Answer

It's completely normal to feel hesitant about engaging with raw and realistic fiction. These themes can evoke strong emotions, and it's important to acknowledge your feelings rather than label them as cowardice. To ease into challenging content, consider setting small, manageable reading goals. Create a cozy reading ritual where you can reflect on what you read, allowing yourself to process difficult themes at your own pace. Remember, developing resilience through reading can be a powerful habit that enriches your understanding of the world.

Miss W. · Answer

Of course not, I personally can’t imagine anyone feeling eager or excited to read those kind of things. They’re heavy topics, they’re hard to talk about for many and are correspondingly hard to read or write about as well. SA, racism, ethnic cleansing, etc. are the darker parts of reality and the fact you can read it at all shows courage.

Anne B. · Answer

Not at all!!😅😅. If anything, I think it's quite brave that that's how you feel but you still keep at it, you go🌼. Umm, I'd say the best way to go through it is slowly, that's what I think. You don't have to read a whole chapter in a day, just a page, or two, or whatever is comfortable for you. Whenever you feel your hesitation coming up, take a break, take a little walk or something like that. You'll do great, I'm sure ☺️☺️🩷

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