1st, 2nd or 3rd person perspective, which do you prefer?

Vanessa Z.
2nd because reading it feels like it is directed towards me. First person it seems like I am talking to myself and 3rd obviously it is more of describing a scene that I am not a part of so 2nd is more engaging but you shouldn’t pressure your own opinions into 2nd person because everyone is different and if you do people will not read it
The E.
Hello. I hope all is well in your beautiful day! I prefer all three perspectives because they give me a chance to really think about the situation at matter. The first perspective could give me a neand new thought pertaining to the situation. The second one could even broaden my horizon about the situation. And the third one gives me a chance to reflect on the last two and really think about how the situation affects me, or how I want to go about the situation. I believe three different perspectives are important to get a broader understanding and to move forward in confidence and success.

Have a blessed day!

Rose C.
The first person is instinctual. Who am I, how do I fit in the picture and what should I do. How should I react? The 2nd or third seem more empathetic and come along after the first. You did that. Why did you do that? Why did he or she do that?
Good or bad, it is usually first person.
Rosie Z.
I’m a first person perspective in personal and professional life. I work this way with clients to be able to centre their (my) experiences, recognize what is out of their (my) control, and what changes they (I) can make. I’ve never thought about being in third perspective, although I have energies in second perspective when I’m trying to encourage myself through something!
Maja F.
I think that each perspective had their own charme. However, personally, I think I prefer the 1st person perspective as it really showcases the emotions of a single character towards other people. I find that there's some magic in seeing other people's facettes only through the eyes of one person, meaning, one has to analyze through those structures, how ones own image of said person is. The first person perspective can truly lead to some thinking which, to me, makes it really special.
Cassandra Y.
I prefer 1st person because it’s so much more personal than writing about you from someone else’s perspective in my mind
Leaf N.
I probably prefer first person perspective, As it really allows you to get in the mind of the character, and really understand the book
Jimmie Z.
1st perspective is what I prefer for it is more real like felt and understood. Also, much lays unknown and disconnected.
Abhisek C.
If you are talking about telling a story, 1st person perspective are always best. It helps you get personally connected to the charecter/s and so the story becomes more suspenseful and understandable.
Tillmann C.
Third person perspective. I am fond of storytelling style of saying things, much like they do in kindergarten. There is mystery and innocence to it.
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Since I had just argued with my friends and I was brokenhearted so I try to move on and that’s the reason why I choose to look everything and a new perspective. But it’s hard to know that it’s your fault but then victimize yourself
Theo N.
It depends, but perhaps 2nd person. It connects with you personally, but also with everyone. It makes you feel more connected with yourself as well as with the universe. It’s general, so that makes it 10x more powerful when its specific.
Jimmy P.
oh I don’t know what’s the 2nd person perspective, is it like a closer 3rd person? hah but yes, I prefer to look at things from distance, so that would be 2nd or 3rd. you know, I even like to talk to myself like I was another person, it really helps me to “convince myself” to do sth. hope this was the answer you were hoping for!
Jill N.
Honestly it depends. All perspectives give different takes and views on situations. But for the right change, do whatever is best for you. Which ever view helps you in the long run.
Rosemary N.
I try to look at it from all perspectives when I can. A lot of times I look at things from a 1st person perspective which I’m trying to do less of.
Karla Y.
I prefer the third person. I think I would like to be as objective as possible, and the only way to have that perspective is to bring yourself away from “I” or “You.” To be objective is to see all answers and to be the most empathetic human being you possibly can. The first and the second person is a bit too easy and too quick to see the full picture. The only answer is the full picture.
Luc Nio Z.
Hmmm…. I don't actually know. I lean towards 2nd perspective. So that I am aware of myself in two ways. As an 'I' and as a you. It allows me to connect with myself. But I do sometimes think about 1st person and its benefits. Especially in the form of affirmations. Maybe 1st person connects me even deeper than 2nd person! It's something I'm still exploring.
Miko Aj N.
I think the best would be lookin at thinks from all 3 perspectives. That way you can see really all good and bad stuff about something. When I’m about decide I’m always tryin to look from all the perspective’s.
Ruxandra U.
I think having the more perspectives the better. That way you can see the way in different shapes and decide which solution works the best. Therefore, I perfer a 3rd person perspective
Lucas Z.
Today at home I got mad at my mom for yelling and I told her to stop because it’s annoying. My mom probably was just playing around. It probably seemed mean.
Jessie W.
It depends on the situation, in bad times a 3rd person POV is better because you aren’t personally affected but see it from afar. In joyous times first person is great or even second person so you can share that joy
Ken S.
Three is a crowd but that is only what they say. The passive voice is usually frowned by my face as it is facing the facts head-on in the face of terrific headwinds.
Rosa W.
3rd person. In somehow it gives me the opportunity to see things rationally and I can empathise with the 2 points of view
Belane N.
For this app, I do like the second person— I like the idea that even if I’m not accomplishing exactly what I wanted to do, I’m still being affirmed that I am not worthless or a failure or anything like that
Greg F.
It depends on the situation and the mood. I used to write in 2nd person to give an advice but I caught myself writing in 3rd a few days ago. It’s a way to make the other feel more comfortable. In some cases I use 1st to make my words stronger. It’s kind of experience…
Luzia P.
third person is a unique opportunity to see a perspective I would not have seen. experiencing a thing, thinking back on that thing is often all I get. Seeing something I've done
being done by someone else where I am the 3rd party is not often encountered.
When it does happen I am usually seeing it differently for the first time.
It offers am observable & sometimes unemotional opportunity to look with different eyes.
I appreciated a non-judgemental
3rd person point of view.
Ben W.
1st person, this is because this way it is from my own perspective. I believe that we shouldn’t be influenced on other peoples perception of us and what they see and think. Therefore I would always prefer to see from a 1st person perspective as am able to control what I see/hear and understand what I believe to be right and wrong. Don’t change yourself based on other people’s opinions and beliefs, change yourself based on your beliefs and grow because you want to not because someone has told you to
Pluck N.
For me 1st.
It’s of course personal. But I like writing directly out of my brain 🧠
But when I’m writing a note for my future self, it’s in third person.
Gaspard S.
1st person it like I am talking about my thoughts to myself and even tho it’s quite lonley who is better to help myself or understand myself than me
Michaela Z.
1st perspective. It's easier for me to write in 1st because you put yourself in your characters shoes and write like it's coming from you.
Hania N.
That’s a good question, but I think 3rd person perspective. It is more comfortable, when im more of a spectator, because i stay in my comfort zone:)
Katie S.
I journal in the evening, I do that because evenings are a time to reflect on your day
I personally do 1st Person bc it feels more personal and I just prefer it
Daniela C.
I think 3rd person because you sort of know what everyone is thinking and you always know what’s going on to tell the story.
Momo N.
I want to be the first one and get all of the attention. I want everyone to see how hard I’ve been doing and that I worth to be here in this place. If you work hard on something do your best and show others your real self.
Nadia J.
First person perspective amplifies the feeling and emotion of a situation and puts you in their shoes. A first person perspective gives a clear idea of what is happening in YOUR eyes. This makes you understand the story and situation better and hence amplifies the perspective overall.
Villads X.
First person because you can see through the eyes of the character and I think that makes a better experience listening from someone who doesn’t know what’s going to happen is much better than listening to somebody that doesn’t know what’s gonna happen it’s like reading someone’s journal you get a more personal experience Diary of a wimpy kid is a good example
Lucy F.
1st!!! Always 1st for me!!! Whether is writing or speaking, I always pick 1st as my 1st preference. This is because you can express deeper emotion and help others understand more so that you can achieve more and feel confident and happy within yourself.
Dorifa Y.
I prefer a 1st person perspective because it can reflect more on our selfs since this is a self reflection app. A 1st person perspective is like we asking ourselves so our thoughts might be more reflective and truthful.
Vicki P.
You mean for storytelling? It depends on the goal and the effect you wish to obtain.
If you’re talking about writing in your journal/diary, 1st. person. I can’t use another.
Asmita P.
I talk to myself most of the time. Sometimes I step into a loving parent shoes or best friend shoes to motivate and guide me
George Y.
I prefer the first person perspective. In my opinion it makes it easier to connect with others. This also helps me gain trust and respect by including others in my decisions and opinions that have to deal with them.
Dustin E.
3rd seems to offer the most perspective in my experience. Any time I am focused on myself, it gives me a limited view of reality. Living in a “1st person reality” is exhausting and prevents any type of real personal growth.
Yadira N.
I like third person. I tend to write everything in third person and have no idea why. It’s really funny bc every time I have to write an English paper and it’s suppose to be in present tense or something I can’t do it; I manage to always write it in third person. It just sounds so much better.
Lea C.
First or third. I like first because you can be in the moment when things are happening. I also like third. Having an opinion that isn’t tainted by sides. Someone who can judge objectively.
Aeterna Sherra K.
I prefer first or third person. First person gives you the perspective of you, that you are you and this is your life. I like third person because it gives you an outside perspective. Like you’re not you and you’re just watching you grow and succeed and fail.
Allison N.
I like 2nd person. If you use it on yourself it shines a light on yourself and let’s you feel more in the moment. It also helps you take a look at yourself from a perspective that isn’t fully in your own head.
Stacy Q.
Interesting question. What is the context? Most of the time I speak and write in first person. For work, I write and speak in 3rd person (representing the company and my team).
Stephanie E.
I prefer 1st and 3rd equally. I think it’s really fun to get the personality through 1st person. Yet 3rd person feeds my desire for the mundane turned into a magical tale.
Maryam F.
Personally, it depends on what you asking about. Firstly, talking about things that are related to me, I use first perspective. Secondly, while second and third perspective is for explaining a, relatively, theoretical concept(s). In a sense, the prior perspective is bringing in the reader closer to the text, as in perhaps making it easier for audience to relate, while the latter perspective is making a relatively larger statement that includes more than just the first two perspectives.
Samaria O.
Personally I enjoy a first person perspective because it’s like an example of what I could be saying to myself third person isn’t bad either it’s like someone looking at me and telling me something which I also enjoy
Acacia O.
I would like to be able to write in the first person, but it just doesn’t work for me. It is just easier for me to write in the third person. I think it’s about Perspective and lacking the option to write the other peoples perspectives. Idk.

Drawing out a story is even third person.

I would like to work on a story from first person. I just have to understand the limit on writing from this angle.

Oscar C.
I prefer 1st person perspective because you can kinda be playing a game, or living your life as an actual person in the normal ways!
Dorota Q.
first person. it's me. no one else and no one else will read what i have written. it's u and no one else so, write with "I" 🙂
Andr I.
First person and in the present tense. It connects me with what i lived and it helps me remember it better. As if i'd relive the whole day in accelerated mode! I only talk on 2nd person when i'm deliberately talking to myself. I imagone it feels very detached. Hmm, interesting.. i've actually never done it! Now i want to try hahah
Lily E.
I like 3rd person perspective, cause it gives an idea of what's happening around you. It also makes you aware of what others think of instead of only one person, cause there's always 2 sides of the story.
Rogelio I.
First person because you can rely more with the person for their experience in live, for the reason s that her or she are being hurt.
Ivan U.
I think I prefer 1st, because it's for myself, I mean I can manage myself without the help of other people, that's all.
Herman U.
2nd person perspective because it still feels like I’m talking to someone or someone is reassuring me but it’s not like I’m gathered around a million people.
Phyllis W.
Third person perspective, because the 3rd person have bigger probability of knowing what the 2nd and 1st person saying. So it’ll be wiser if a person saw perspective from a wider one, so they can make summary from all of the perspective
Renata G.
I prefer 1st person persepective because it makes me feel like I am
really in the book, and it helps me relate to the main character more. I love 2nd and 3rd as well, but I think 1st is my favorite
Declan B.
What others think is there business not mine if they want to share that's fine if its criticism then I also have a choice to not listen keep positive by keeping positive people in your life.
Alonna P.
1st because I know that I don’t need nobody but myself at the end of the day I get used and done wrong but that’s all gonna change for me because I’m working on myself and the outcome is good
Carley O.
3rd. It feels the best. I absolutely hate 2nd person because it feels like the author is telling me how I feel. I like to have my own opinions on things. 1st isn’t as bad as second, but you are living as the character and they also have differing opinions than you. So I prefer 3rd. I think it’s healthy to read in 1st person every once in a while so you have a grasp of other opinions, but 2nd is something I have never been able to enjoy.
Jirisha F.
I prefer 1st person. 1st person puts you through the things and situations. It gives you more of a present-like look on things. 1st person statements will get you going. 1st person puts me first.
Thea Z.
First person helps you live your life so it is focused around you. First person allows you to add thoughts, personal ideas, etc. It also helps you work with you mental health, Therefore, I favor first person.
Maria C.
I prefer a 1st person perspective because my opinion is the only one that truly matters. I can be my own best and worst critic and it is up to me to make my life what I want it to be.
Akanksha C.
I usually prefer 1st perspective. This really shows us the character or the person’s thoughts and feelings which makes the whole situation more interesting and relatable.
Kathryn F.
I think it’s better 1st person because you can give your thought and feelings but I also like 3rd person because you can describe the actions very well
Kennedy W.
First person is fun because you are sort of the main character because you are right alongside them, finding things out with them, and your living their life with them.
Silas N.
I think i like To talk Best in the 1st person so can share from what I a man learning! Then my next choice to speak ,one on towards general focused subject to people! My third choice I think next choice would be talking to just one person!
Angel U.
I’d say 1st person for sure. A lot of people would call me selfish or greedy but that’s not the case at all. Saying “I” to my communicates that me has to be one/in tune/at peace with self in order to show up in the world haw we desire in our heads. An unhappy you will contribute to other people’s negativity and unless you know who YOU are and where you stand!
Silje Z.
3rd person perspective, I prefer that because you see everything from the outside, at the same time it’s weird because we don’t see life in that way, but it’s very interesting. I hope I answered your question right
Kasper C.
I don't know. Maybe i prefer 1st person. This ist very a hard question. Sorry my answer is very short, but I learning English a short time
Matthieu T.
I like first person, especially in books, because it feels like someone is truly talking to me. I can see what they are directly thinking and it just feels so much more real. Like this is an ‘exaggeration’ (I don’t know the word for it) of a kind, but I think the text like pops out or seems bigger in a way when it’s first person.
Karisa N.
I disagree, when a short sentence can represent a whole paragraph with the key word it has, than i prefer the short sentence.
Lesa O.
I think I depends on the situation and tone of the book. If it’s action packed and the main character has funny/snarky remarks or insightful comments I prefer 1st but if it’s more like a bedtime story or there are a lot of characters then I prefer 3rd. I know this didn’t really answer the question so here is the more straightforward answer: 1st generally but it depends
Juc Lia C.
1st person perspective is the best since it's your own. But it's not bad to have a 2nd or 3rd perspective either because you may notice something you can't notice as a 1st person perspective
Raquel F.
It depends. If the story has multiple characters, 3rd person is better suited for the sake of fluid dialogue and story telling. However, I do love how personal first person can become. You can get the raw emotion and thought process in one bundle. Understanding why a villain does the bad things, what motivates a good guy to do good deeds.
Cyare M.
I dont really have a preference, currently im will stick with 3rd person perspective because i can describe everything and anything
Olivia O.
When situation hits me, my sudden reaction has always been a 1st person from Inside but outside I am all calm and put together. Then Few minutes later I think from a second and 3rd person’s perspective when it come to making decisions. I like to think and look at the situation from all perspective and then make a decision.
Beatriz T.
Always think of all the three perspectives at the same time. You’ll see what argument weighs more, and what is more important in a simple way
Lisa B.
I prefer mine;
Other humans and their perspective comes from their senses of things.
mine comes from me and that’s all I need
So I prefer 1 person perspective
Mine.
Pramati Z.
I would prefer perspective depending on the situation if you have people helping and supporting in doing something then I would prefer 3rd but if you have only one person with you to support and join what whatever that is you are doing then I prefer 2nd and if it is only you then I prefer 1st
Iolene A.
I prefer 3rd person perspective, especially when journaling. I have an internal monologue that speaks to me in the 3rd person. I find, when journaling, I can put that onto paper and it feels more like a mentor giving me advise and guiding me on the right path.
Sameya O.
3rd person is always better in my opinion, you can learn more and it just sounds a little better. It feels like im watching the characters instead of living like them. It makes me feel cool.
Francisca G.
1st absolutely, I rather know the history or wtv from the person because it’s different the way they express themselfs and you can feel how really the person feels. And you can relate more easily.
Nelson Y.
3rd person perspective because i feel that it would allow me to see how i live in this world. to see if the way i feel is justified by the way i love
Evelyn O.
I like both first person as it feels very personal and helps me believe that oh, it’s about me, from myself. And third person because it feels like a narrator narrating my story. But for example, in the letters that I read in this app from future me I really liked and I think would fall into the second person category.
Nathan Z.
When reading I prefer any perspective. Although in real life I would use 1st perspective. I like to get things from my point of view, but it entirely depends on the situation.
Natasha Y.
3rd person because it allows space to think about a subject from a distance or with some space in between the person and the story or challenge that’s arising
Boba G.
I like 1st person perspective better. I am not constantly looking at myself wondering if I look pretty enough, and being in the 1st person state is overall pretty relaxing.
William G.
I'm not sure if you mean writing and reading, or something else, but I will answer in terms of those.

I think off the bat, 3rd person is my go-to, but not necessarily my favorite. It's easy to work with and to read, and allows you to get into many different characters' heads instead of limiting to the protagonist.

1st person does this, and while it can be very good when you know your protagonist well, it can also be very bad. A 1st person story where the narrative reads like a narrative and not the character telling the story is hard to get into.

2nd person is definitely the most difficult, and I rarely see it done because of that. However, that doesn't mean it's bad. When done well, 2nd person makes for a really compelling way to pull a reader into the story and place them there as their own character.

I like all three, given the circumstances are right. Some are just easier than others, so the right circumstances come more often.

Wonderful A.
I prefer 1st perspective because it feels like it’s my own journey. Like saying the words “i” or “me” makes it feel like i take it ownership
Raoul T.
My habit is 1st. 2nd is something I could do more. But I actually prefer 3rd, because it brings the most to a situation.
Argemiro E.
I prefer the 2nd person perspective. I need to feel as though Simone is coaching me and cheering me on. At this time, I can’t rely on myself. I hope to get there in the future.
Ekrem O.
I believe that when you think about it you’d be quick to say well third person duh, but when you really take your time and think about it it’s like wait I've been in all these positions before. I mean think about it you’re in 1st person in real life and only in second and third person when you talk about you like someone else is talking about you, so really I don’t have an answer but it’s always better to live in 1st person perspective because sometimes when you’re in your head to much you want to escape but you can’t until eventually you can.
Elissa E.
I’d prefer 3rd person perspective. I like the idea of having someone else narrate my life, thoughts, and everything going on. Plus 3rd person allows you to see what’s going on in someone else’s life that corresponds to your life too.
Jesse Z.
I prefer first person statements because they convey self-responsibility. I speak only for myself, rather than for others or a group. This leaves room for others to represent themselves or for the group to come to a consensus.
Aggelos X.
If you are talking about video games I would say 1sr person it really makes me feel like I am in the game which makes everything look more realistic and fun
Sebi N.
I get like that if I’m having the same meal every morning like cereal… so I make something else that is wholesome and healthy …try something different each morning or explore what you are craving and go with that. As long as it’s nutritious.
Andrew P.
1st or 3rd person perspective is best for me. Especially 1st since it’s me doing it. But I do like 3rd to since it’s like a future me doing it.
Erwin L.
I think, that if this perspective is to someone, then I don’t care, because I’d never run after someone to be the first, or the second, or the third, etc.,
The important thing for me, is to be the first one for myself and I’m working on it!
Mermaid Z.
I think 1st person..? Though I really love books with the third person perspective, definitely 1st person. My reason being because you get to understand the protagonist’s character in a more personal and understand sense along with learning the story and their thoughts which makes the story even more awesome. ✨📖
Seircha E.
Well I generally like all perspectives, but I’m not picky with what I get or choose, so I’ll say first person point of view. Makes things more important and comprehensible.
Phil F.
2nd person is great for practicing distancing self talk.

3rd person is fun, I use it when I talk to my partner.

1st person is the place of belonging.

Taylor A.
I prefer third person perspective because I feel more immersed in the story as an impartial observer. I feel as though second person perspective makes assumptions about how I would feel or act about a given scenario. Third person perspective also has a distinct advantage of quickly and clearly being able to change the character's perspective from which a story is told, which gives opportunity to add depth and complexity.
William C.
I will go with all perspectives, it gives a better view, because we all may be viewing from different perspectives, but analyzing all sides of view bring us to the true understanding of the matter
Melanie Z.
1st because it allows me to imagine the people, places and things in the story better and I am able to feel more involved in the story, like I am actually there myself.
Titouan Z.
I live in 1st, but when i space out, i imagine myself in 3rd person perspective. It's an interesting event, and I get to think of how others see me.
J Rn X.
1st person is where u get every single detail of your own life but u can miss some parts due to there being so much of them. 2nd person I think is someone who’s watching 1st person and you can only comprehend what u know just like person 1 but you only see what that person either wants u to see or what they don’t know ur seeing. 3rd person I think is watching person 1 and 2 and I think 3rd person is nosy but not always in a bad way but they know everything in small detail
Eckart Q.
I don’t know if I fully understand the question, but if I do, it really depends, I think personally I would choose 1st person perspective so that you can see the world from your own eyes and so that you can live your life instead of looking at somebody else living their life
Nicholas N.
It depends. If I'm writing something like diary or a story which is somehow more specific from the view of the main character, it's 1st person perspective, but for other stories I use 3rd person perspective
Katie F.
I prefer 1st person because it personalizes a story and sets the reader in the thoughts as well as the actions of the character.
Alberte A.
The best way of writing is when you put all your emotions and feelings into your typing. Type as if you’re talking to someone, like right now, i’m typing whatever is in my mind. Writing with emotions and writing as if you’re talking to someone is really great especially when writing a story.
Cindy N.
I like 3rd person perspective. I think that 3rd person includes no only the other peoples points of view, but also my own. I like to get what other people think and also for them to see what I think or feel. It’s a process of reciprocity.
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Juliano O.
1st is better than the other cause I think it’s just for me and i want to be a nice person and be like that one ☝🏻 but you can see what I want see you buddy and i want to see you hun 😉
Lee W.
1st perspective because it’s more like the instinct that you had about the situation. It also depends on the situation you face or dealing with.
Richard U.
first person) i like being able to know what the person thinks, how there seeing everything. i also find it easiest to understand, like someone is telling you a story of their life. my favorite is when there is multiple people telling the story in first person, alternating chapters between the main characters.
Other F.
I prefer 3rd perspective- trying to see and face situations as an outsider. It helps a lot in social situations, but many of my own wishes or needs could be ignored thanks to that. In my opinion, the best way is to combine all.
Sofie X.
Second, as in “you do this, you do that…” It feels like I’m having a conversation with myself, and weirdly more personal that “I” statements (But still more connected than third person). I’m thinking within the context of storytelling, like the narative bits of this app.