How you tell others that they need to clean after themselves straight away in kitchen so you don’t sound mean? I am tired of repeating myself and cleaning after others. Not cleaning works for 1 time and it is back same afterwards.

Sophie N.
I think subtle hints won’t work. You have to build up the courage to tell someone what’s what or else life will get harder for you. You can say it politely but the truth hurts and if they can’t handle that then it’s on them