My husband says he doesn't learn like that… that he has to make mistakes for himself! Ugh… what a frustrating thing for me!!! Lol!
I can look at the other person's situation… reason through it… tweak/ apply it to my situation… and see if there's anything helpful to learn from the other person's mistakes!
Much better than suffering through all my own mistakes I think! (Of course, there will always be some of that!)
Best of luck! 😉