Do you ever just not know how or where to start writing? Like you know you have stuff to write about but can’t put it into words? What do you do?

Yes, all the time. Even though I love writing, it’s often this feeling that stops me from doing it and makes starting the task frustrating.
What’s helped me is treating the first page as a brain dump, somewhere I don’t have to come back to and read. Just to get words out there on the page.

Then, what really helps the most is asking myself questions and trying to answer them much as if I were having a conversation with a friend. I find writing as if I were speaking really takes the pressure off. It allows me to focus on my ideas rather than grammar.

Happens to me almost every day, I always think more than I can put into words. When it happens, I start by rating my day and then talking about it, and that builds up my flow

Do just what you did. By writing down your question to yourself. Then write down any word that comes to your mind.
The answer doesn’t have to be in the writing. Write about the past, the present and/or the future. Write “ Iam thinking about what to write I’m not sure where this writing session is taking me. I will start by writing about my favorite subject. What am I grateful for about this subject? What would happen if I wrote for a few minutes. And I didn’t try to be perfect, if I didn’t try to have the perfect sentence structure if I just played with writing. If I just got comfortable with holding pen, paper and or your keyboard. And call that success for the moment and then say you write today’s date, time and weather. Writing takes practice. I failed English writing and Instill struggle with it but here I am brain dumping advise. Here are my thoughts about writing this. “It’s not going to make sense” and “maybe I’m not even answering the question you asked. I’m judging my efforts and that’s okay” I hope my thoughts help you get started.