Not well. Havenāt established a rythem yet do to being in recovery mode & not expecting much change soon. For instance 2nite I cooked prepped for 2morrow,rinsed&soaked dishes BUT will awaken to have dishes to wash. Iāve required a Home Health Care Aide since 2014, & do to covid-19 risk gave her the whole week off. She has other clients also & getting sick is too risky for me. So this week doing all myself, but being patient with me too.
If youāre working within the app, thereās (eventually) an evening and afternoon option. I was confused at first too. Save bedtime tasks for what you would do, if youāve checked your whole to-do list, for what you do between saying 'Iām headed to bedāand closing your eyes. I just have teeth stuff and relaxation stuff, only takes a few minutes before bed. Hope that helps š
I often canāt sleep just due to the complications of having a neurological illness but when I can, very little can stop me. Narcolepsy is very often an issue with MS and when it kicks you nothing is going to stop it. So then, I sleep. Heavy. Hard. Well. Itās heaven.
I feel that if the task was truly important I would have focused on it during the day. If I started it but didnāt complete it the. I simply make note of whatās next and resolve to get further along the next day. I find it helps that before bed I do a ābrain dumpā into my journal. This way if my mind is playing tricks on me Iāve emptied it to paper. Then itās easier to fall asleep and stay asleep. The next morning I go back to the task I didnāt complete or if thatās done then I look at my brain dump pick one thing and get that done. Sometimes I play games and set a timer for 15 minutes and say ok do as much as I can then stop. I find that to my surprise I get sometimes 3 things done in the 15 minutes. Then I realize how much my brain made that thing bigger than it really was.
I budget my time by cutting out on social media, or watching movies which bakes me to focus on the tasks that are at hand. Iāll get as much done as possible, or start on it at hand so when Iām exhausted I can pick it up the next day where I left of at so I can complete it with accuracy.
Currently I donāt manage my time very well before going to bed. I have written a routine but I donāt follow it closely. When Miya goes to bed it is sometimes late and Emilie and I take a little time to have a rest. But having a rest should be better at bed, not by chilling on the sofa
If I have important tasks I do them first thing in the morning. I donāt really have a set schedule. We tend to handle things as they come.
I always make lists and agendas to keep myself organized. When I have completed my to do list , I feel comfortable going to bed. I strongly urge to have a maximum of 7-8 on your to do list each day. If you see yourself needed to do more, you are overworking yourself and need to restrategize.
Iām working since 6am, so the most important things I wanna finish by the lunch time (12am), I ideally finish work by 5pm, dinner is at 6pm and at 7pm I completely disconnect off the internet (PC and phone). After dinner I have something more important than work ā bathing and getting to sleep my 1 year old son. I usually donāt email before the lunch.
I guess the best I can do is start the day knowing what I need to get done and making sure the high priority tasks are early enough in the day that if something comes up or something takes longer, then I can still be done in time. I think the other important factor is that I need to recognize that I will always have items on my to-do list but that doesnāt mean they have to get done right now. Itās important to mark ahead of time when is it okay to stop for the day. If you get more done awesome, but if thatās where you get to, youāre good.
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