š I trusted my intuition. I always go with how I feel. I did a lot of things (read books mainly), but at the end of the day it was always someone elseās experience. I had to disconnect to reconnect. I had to unlearn everything and rebuild my foundations based around my own experiences. I had to change the way I thought and felt about myself through my own eyes.
I read the unbearable lightness of being and realised I need to take a deep breath and relax - shouldnāt have so much pressure on myself
from my religion (Islam), many beautiful habits have planted in me, which one of them is, "slef-monitoring and love for others what u love to my self" ... because of this, i kept monitoring my self, my mentals and emotionals, till i could to deeply discover myself then i studied myself. also iam always interested in personality quizes, games and read or watch veriety of personality and characters studies and articles, this helped me to accept the real me, fix the bad me, improve the good me. then i could set up my purpose and my sub-purposes ...
Did a course for work and then began working on my best self- years later read a book to reinvest as well as relate to workās mission
No Iāve always just wanted to give other people hope that I always wanted to get or have but never did. I just know thereās others out there like me and I really have just always wanted to give them hope that they can make it to the good sides of there story, instead of relying on there own voice. They can rely on mine to tell them that they can do it.
I contemplated my identity and listened to discussions about the topic on youtube. I wrote my purpose as, "My purpose is to feel" because I think about being a spirit reincarnated into a physical body so that I could experience love between friends and other emotions in this lifetime. Otherwise, I would go back to being a spirit and not knowing it because I donāt have my 5 physical senses no more. Therefore, as long as I am a human, my purpose is to experience. That means to try new things, explore, be kind, etc.
Iāve just come to the conclusion that my life purpose is to enjoy life. I wonāt judge myself on success/ fitness/ beauty etc just whether I am happy and proud of who I am. The people around me, my health, enjoying my job and the place I live. Itās all important but to always remember my life purpose will alter as I grow. What makes me happy now may not in the future, or what makes me happy then may not now. So I should continue to chase what makes me happy. I donāt envy a settled life, the more change the better. Especially as change & exploring is part of what makes me happy. The more things I can look at around me and feel happy to have in my life, the more I have worked towards my purpose. My purpose is to be happy.
I havenāt yet determined my life purpose. I think of it as an ever growing and evolving thing. Everyday I reflect on what I think my purpose might be, but I never know. I try my best.
I simply looked at what I do than asked myself āwhat fuels you to do this?ā. Most of the time the answer reveals itself.
I came to my lifeās purpose by simply following my natural tendencies. I was slanted toward helping others. I could see what others couldnāt see, hear what others didnāt hear. I sought out a career that I wouldnāt have to retire from. Paid well. Respectable, trusted & necessary work. Because I loved it, Iāve never worked a day in my life. I am a registered nurse in the Operating Room.
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