Knowing what you know now, if at 20 you could have made a to-do list for the rest of your life, what would be the most important thing on it?

Do not be a lone wolf. Seek the support of others.

Learn, travel, step out of your comfort zone as often as possible, start NLP even sooner, be brave to show yourself,

I would have made daily to do lists and adjusted my plans , not for minor things, like laundry, buy yogurt , but for habits I want to establish for life, like pilates daily, journal daily, etc. I would have made 1, 2 and 5 year goals. I would have identified what I needed, but didn’t have, to successfully achieve those goals. Then those gaps could be added to my to do list

Get a driver’s license and complete my undergraduate education out of state. Get a passport and travel to faraway places more.

Take risks to pursue the things you love. Devote time to learn more skills toward the things you are passionate about. Develop healthy eating, exercise and mental wellness habits, they will serve you well as you get older.

Invest even if you start small. Invest in continuous education, in your future, in stocks, in people.

Prioritize self-care. You can’t build a level A life with level C habits. (Get your own sh*# together before you save the world or anyone else.)

Make time to enjoy life and savour the little moments that make life beautiful.

Live life to the max; experience everything you can; give everything you do 110%. Refuse to sit on the sidelines

Love and connect through being vulnerable and courageous. Empower yourself and don’t expect others to fulfill your needs, but be vulnerable and express what you want and how you feel.