How do I stay realistic when finding my purspose?

Asta W.
I’m not sure. I think what I need to do is be unrealistic and dream big, because otherwise I’ll stop myself from even recognizing any desires or hopes or wishes. I can bring myself back to earth later

Albaraa U.
Train your imagination muscle by doing the exercise of zooming in and out.. close your eyes and take deep breaths then just see yourself standing sitting or lying down whatever your current position then zoom out into the room then the house then the cross then the neighbourhood then the city the country the earth the space.. then zoom in back into your body then inside your skin then cells then the most smallest part within you.. then zoom out into your body

Alice P.
It comes with the experience of trying to improve. You will naturally have to get up and do it all over again on repeat or get up and readjust. Throughout the journey you realize that most of the strength gained actually comes FROM these moments, the moments where we must get up and try again, or get up and rethink the plan. Even sometimes we start to draw up a new plan till we realize it wasn’t the plans fault it was just a matter of time, that we just need to keep moving and keep trusting the process.

Nina E.
Don't worry about what is realistic – just focus on what you most want out of life, and what is most important to you. This is the time to go big! You don't know what is or isn't realistic until you try, and often big things are more in reach than we think they are if we put in the work consistently. If you want something, you first have to have a vision of what that thing is. It's really important not to hold yourself back in that imagining.

Forget realistic. What is it you long for? Who is your best self, what are they like, and what are they doing, thinking, and feeling?

Then figure out the smallest simplest thing you can do today that moves you towards that purpose. Do that thing. Then figure out what the next smallest thing is, and do that next, or tomorrow. Keep at it. With momentum building, soon you'll be able to do more than one small simple thing at a time.

Sangeetha C.
You can visualise it often and also… Just focus on what you want and think about it again and again you will get whatever you mind sets on. For finding your purpose you can try ikigai methods.. Identify in which you are good at and think about it as if you got that… You will for sure one day will get that

Viktoria X.
I try to keep in mind that I likely put to much or in a way to big certain purposes, so I think really small and focused, detailed tasks or intentions will do it.

Christy C.
Just think about the thing that make you happy And the reason why you started there must be some valid and strong reason because of which you started and remember the first day when you started and you will feel the same zeal and enthusiasm

Filippo E.
Part it into tinier steps. Thus, you will have more realistic and bearable goals. It will become easier for you to focus on each step accordingly, rather then observe a whole purpose and do different kinds of things simultaneously. Learning Japanese is difficult, but learning it's alfabets – the first step – is much easier to complete and accurate to comprehend.

Robyn Z.
I just think like what do I need to do what will help me like if I pick something stupid I will make it better and more officent2

Danielle F.
getting help is already a huge step, doing smaller tasks that help you find what you find enjoyable is great. finding your purpose just takes a lot of trial and errors find stuff you enjoy and are happy doing.