How do you stop your family undoing all your hard work within 10 seconds??

Learn to say no and to stand up for yourself. Make sure they know what your boundaries are and what you’re trying to achieve. If possible don’t spend time with them… so you don’t have to listen or worry about what they say. You can love your family although you do not have to put up with anything abusive, degrading, or rude, to name a few things. ~Kat

I simply don't care about what they wanna think. it's my life and i only live once. so i will ignore any nasty comments about anything