{"id":34515,"date":"2021-01-20T10:00:25","date_gmt":"2021-01-20T10:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/if-you-are-grateful-about-the-things-around-you-but-you-dont-actaully-like-yourself-how-do-you-be-grateful-for-being-you\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:37:57","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:37:57","slug":"if-you-are-grateful-about-the-things-around-you-but-you-dont-actaully-like-yourself-how-do-you-be-grateful-for-being-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/if-you-are-grateful-about-the-things-around-you-but-you-dont-actaully-like-yourself-how-do-you-be-grateful-for-being-you\/","title":{"rendered":"If you are grateful about the things around you, but you dont actaully like yourself&#8230;. How do you be grateful for being you?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Claudia I.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">you can\u2019t really be great full for being you if you don\u2019t like yourself but you can be great full for the people around you and other things around you .<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-2601742716\"><div id=\"thefa-4140682814\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Take control of your life<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Maddie Z.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I previously tried to focus on my circumstances and accomplishments rather than myself, as I didn&#39;t want to go down a negative rabbit hole. Now that I&#39;ve been doing it a couple of weeks, I am more able to allow myself to be proud and happy with where I am, so practice really helps, and even if you can&#39;t think of anything about yourself your grateful for, you are alive, and your body is doing its best.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Ellie W.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Do the work to help take steps towards loving yourself. There is nothing more important than this. Reflect on what it is you don\u2019t like about yourself. Forgive yourself most importantly. What\u2019s in the past is in the past. Focus on building in the present and for the future. Try writing down some of your thoughts that are detrimental towards yourself and rewrite them. For example, \u2018I hate that I\u2019m shy\u2019. Instead of this negative berating of yourself rewrite it to \u2018I love that I\u2019m a good listener\u2019 or \u2018I love that I\u2019m happiest at home\u2019. These are just examples and not specific to you or me but you can see self-care is just seeing the good in yourself. Try some morning affirmations on YouTube too. Pick one that\u2019s five minutes and repeat the affirmations every day.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Claudia I. you can\u2019t really be great full for being you if you don\u2019t like yourself but you can be great full for the people around you and other things around you . Maddie Z. I previously tried to focus on my circumstances and accomplishments rather than myself, as I didn&#39;t want to go down a negative rabbit hole. 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