{"id":33837,"date":"2020-12-23T10:00:30","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T10:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-deal-with-others-being-upset-that-you-are-not-reachable-or-a-good-texter-i-only-respond-to-texts-about-three-times-a-day-and-turn-my-phone-off-nightly-at-7pm-i-do-not-li\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:10:00","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:10:00","slug":"how-do-you-deal-with-others-being-upset-that-you-are-not-reachable-or-a-good-texter-i-only-respond-to-texts-about-three-times-a-day-and-turn-my-phone-off-nightly-at-7pm-i-do-not-li","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-deal-with-others-being-upset-that-you-are-not-reachable-or-a-good-texter-i-only-respond-to-texts-about-three-times-a-day-and-turn-my-phone-off-nightly-at-7pm-i-do-not-li\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you deal with others being upset that you are not reachable or a \u201cgood texter.\u201d I only respond to texts about three times a day and turn my phone off nightly at 7pm. I do not like the fact that I am always reachable."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Luna W.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Hey!<br \/>\nI completely understand where you\u2019re coming from.<br \/>\nYou often feel bad for not being active virtually, and feel bad when comparing yourself to how active others are in reaching out.<br \/>\nTo feel like you are there for your friends whilst prioritising your routine and well-being I would firstly let your friends know about this routine so they are aware when is best to contact you.<br \/>\nThen I would suggest to make time to go out on walks with friends (if this is within guidelines for the region you\u2019re staying in) because it gives you the opportunity  for fresh air, exercise and more of a genuine connection with your friends than it would be online. They will really appreciate this<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-3340843340\"><div id=\"thefa-2224110537\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Take control of your life<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Anonymous N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It\u2019s great that you\u2019re turning off your phone at a certain time! This makes sleep much easier and better. If your friends can\u2019t understand that you do this for your own health, then it\u2019s not your problem. You can be a supportive friend without putting their needs before yours.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Luna W. Hey! I completely understand where you\u2019re coming from. You often feel bad for not being active virtually, and feel bad when comparing yourself to how active others are in reaching out. 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