{"id":31965,"date":"2020-08-05T10:00:54","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T10:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/sometimes-i-feel-like-i-want-clutter-around-me-it-gives-me-comfort-i-think-my-brain-tells-me-not-to-tidy-because-id-lose-that-comfort-how-do-i-detangle-from-that-belief\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T15:54:32","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T15:54:32","slug":"sometimes-i-feel-like-i-want-clutter-around-me-it-gives-me-comfort-i-think-my-brain-tells-me-not-to-tidy-because-id-lose-that-comfort-how-do-i-detangle-from-that-belief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/sometimes-i-feel-like-i-want-clutter-around-me-it-gives-me-comfort-i-think-my-brain-tells-me-not-to-tidy-because-id-lose-that-comfort-how-do-i-detangle-from-that-belief\/","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes I feel like I want clutter around me. It gives me comfort (I think).  My brain tells me not to tidy because I&#8217;d lose that comfort.  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However, once I had a set place for everything, I felt even BETTER because not only did everything have a home, but the neatness actually did make a difference for me.<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-2706527969\"><div id=\"thefa-3426736687\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Take control of your life<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Cilli Q.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It seems clutter has become meaningful to you and you attach to things, not necessarily expensive things, to add meaning and fullness to you life. Perhaps in order to not address the loneliness or the lack of commitment to yourself. It\u2019s a project you will get to that doesn\u2019t really bother you. It\u2019s something you can handle some day, but not now, and while the \u2018clutter project\u2019 is pending, you don\u2019t have to get to the other heavy stuff. Get it done and find yourself beyond it.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kelsey P. I had a similar issue. I found that the &quot;comfort&quot; is in knowing where everything is. However, once I had a set place for everything, I felt even BETTER because not only did everything have a home, but the neatness actually did make a difference for me. Cilli Q. 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