{"id":30754,"date":"2020-07-08T10:00:38","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T10:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/i-am-fourteen-years-old-and-i-always-want-to-get-the-best-grades-but-i-often-feel-so-much-regret-and-put-myself-down-when-i-dont-how-do-i-get-out-of-this-terrible-habit-and-begin-to-be-grate\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:19:58","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:19:58","slug":"i-am-fourteen-years-old-and-i-always-want-to-get-the-best-grades-but-i-often-feel-so-much-regret-and-put-myself-down-when-i-dont-how-do-i-get-out-of-this-terrible-habit-and-begin-to-be-grate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/i-am-fourteen-years-old-and-i-always-want-to-get-the-best-grades-but-i-often-feel-so-much-regret-and-put-myself-down-when-i-dont-how-do-i-get-out-of-this-terrible-habit-and-begin-to-be-grate\/","title":{"rendered":"I am fourteen years old and I always want to get the best grades but I often feel so much regret and put myself down when I don\u2019t. 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Third ask &quot;what is my &#39;next right thing &#39;? &quot; Figure out what the next most positive thing  you can do or say in relation to meeting the goal.<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-2010049031\"><div id=\"thefa-617321487\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Stop wasting your mornings<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Build a better life<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Afonso Q.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Just put in your efforts to the best of your ability and don&#39;t worry about the results&#8230; Negative thoughts lead to negative outcomes and never underestimate yourself no matter what \ud83d\ude0aYou&#39;re amazing<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Dana C.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Don\u2019t take yourself seriously. 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