{"id":23230,"date":"2020-04-29T10:00:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T10:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-can-i-be-grateful-to-people-i-dont-like\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:17:04","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:17:04","slug":"how-can-i-be-grateful-to-people-i-dont-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-can-i-be-grateful-to-people-i-dont-like\/","title":{"rendered":"how can I be grateful to people I don&#8217;t like"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Sigur R Z.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Personally I don&#39;t get grateful for people I do not like. However, they make me more grateful for those in my life I do like. &lt;3<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-1671825881\"><div id=\"thefa-4231758285\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Your new life awaits<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Jeanine A.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Because they are teaching you tolerance and helping you become a better person. If you don&#39;t like them try to understand why you don&#39;t.  This will show you something valuable about your life and yourself.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Alicia Y.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Think about being grateful for the lessons they&#39;ve taught you &#8211; how to be patient and kind. Sometimes people aren&#39;t nice or don&#39;t like us for our benefit. The lesson is more important than the friendship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Harrison U.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">You don\u2019t have to like someone to appreciate or be grateful for something they may offer. To you, or to society. Find that positive attribute in said person and reflect on that. That will help you find your gratitude towards a person you don\u2019t like.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">\u0634\u0631\u0648\u0642 \u0645\u062d\u0645\u0648\u062f N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Because you can learn many things from them, you can ask your self what you don\u2019t like in them and in the future you can choose people don\u2019t have this adjective .<br \/>\nAlso you can learn how deal with this personal now and in the future . you will be more understood and have many skills help you to have good relationships with people.<br \/>\nSo I think you should thank this person and be grateful for him not hate him . \ud83e\udd2d\ud83d\udc4c\ud83c\udffb<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Taylor X.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It&#39;s a hard point, but forgiveness is better than grudge. We all play a part in each other&#39;s lives and we learn to be good to the people who likely don&#39;t like us either. Just think of them as a friend that you have lost. And try to be these things and hopefully you will be able to get through \ud83d\ude42<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Kanika F.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Every person in your life is a reflection of your thoughts. The reason of not liking that person is also an internal thing, the day you remove that the reason will also be removed and that person will also not validate that reason anymore.<br \/>\nMoreover, I believe every person can teach you something, specially people who are teaching you to be loving and positive and asking to to erode the feeling of hate from your life. So can you really hate such person who is teaching you the most beautiful thing in this word?<\/p>\n<p>Also, You nights be saying you just hate this person, but your subconscious is getting used to this emotion and will fetch this emotion everytime things don\u2019t go as per your pre conceived notion. So why to feed brain with this and why to make is even aware of this feeling. <\/p>\n<p>Our state should be a state of love for all, kindness for all, care for all- unconditional!! Then would be some meaning life.<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Riley O.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Once upon a time, a fish was speaking to another fish. The first fish said, \u201cthe water is great today.\u201d The second fish responded, \u201cwhat is water?\u201d Everything exists in pairs. You\u2019ll never know something is good if you\u2019ve never experienced something bad. You\u2019ll never know what light is if you\u2019ve never seen darkness. You\u2019ll never understand life if you aren\u2019t aware of death. It may not always seem like it, but the people we dislike are blessings. They humble us. They remind us that there is someone elsewhere who appreciates us and loves us for who we are. They remind us to continue offering love and sacrifice to the people that matter. When we behold the people we don\u2019t like, we appreciate the people we like that much more and continue to work towards improving out relationships with them. The people we dislike are the universe\u2019s way of keeping us on the path of kindness.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Elizabeth N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Every time you meet someone, they are an opportunity to leArn something about yourself and about the world. How do you respond to them? What makes you respond in that way? What happened to them in their life that causes them to be who they are today? How is that similar or different to your experiences? Sometimes asking those questions helps me to find gratitude \ud83d\ude4f<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Sergio Y.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">We can be grateful to people that we don\u2019t like because they show us how we do not want to be. These people show us how other people feel about us when we behave similarly. We also might have that bad feature in ourselves but not being able to realise until when we see it in the people that we don\u2019t like them.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Becca A.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">You can be grateful that those people have shown you how great the people you love truly are. You can also be grateful that people you don\u2019t like have helped you learn things like patience, independence, or anything else you\u2019ve gained through dealing with them!<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Reem N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I can be grateful to the days I don\u2019t see the people I don\u2019t like. If they\u2019re a genuinely mean and aggressive person, I can be grateful for them showing me how not to act. If said person ever tried to berate me and fails to, I can be grateful that I was mentally strong enough to handle their criticism and continue with my day.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Guy Christophe X.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">You should embrace that you have people that you don&#39;t like by asking why we don&#39;t like them from the first place. Everything should be a blessing.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Magdalena X.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It can be easier when we realize that the life is not only about what we like and that such a people have also important role in our lifes. They are the same and also have their struggles.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Jesus S.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Because they provide you with the opportunity to review your own values and activate your internal schemes in order to adapt and be a better version of yourself<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Carlos C.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">A person that you don\u2019t like may not necessarily add value to your life as good friends and family do. However, they can help you develop good character qualities such as, patience and self-control. So even if you encounter a negative feeling or experience concerning that person, You can learn to respond in a mature manner without exerting any negative behaviours on your side just because you don\u2019t  like them. In this case, you can show gratitude towards them by accepting how they have shown themselves to be towards you, and using that to navigate through life the best way you can.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sigur R Z. Personally I don&#39;t get grateful for people I do not like. However, they make me more grateful for those in my life I do like. &lt;3 Jeanine A. Because they are teaching you tolerance and helping you become a better person. If you don&#39;t like them try to understand why you don&#39;t. 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