{"id":23210,"date":"2020-04-29T10:00:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T10:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-cope-with-people-who-constantly-asks-for-help-without-showing-gratitude\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:16:44","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:16:44","slug":"how-do-you-cope-with-people-who-constantly-asks-for-help-without-showing-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-cope-with-people-who-constantly-asks-for-help-without-showing-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you cope with people who constantly asks for help without showing gratitude?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Kiyona C.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I would speak up and maybe ask them if they appreciate my help. Depending on the response I get, i may either tell then i wont continue to help until they show their appreciation or if they do appreciate it, id tell them to show it in a different way so i can know they appreciate my help.<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-3122515702\"><div id=\"thefa-3277121496\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Start making your days count<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Try now<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Gabriel S.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I\u2019m trying to not help those people, but unfortunately i do help them, then i blame myself for why i did help them, if they can\u2019t be grateful why would i help them, they better find solutions for themselves.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Natalie J.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I remember when Jesus washed the feet of the disciples and he felt that no task was below him. As a nurse, visualizing him washing their feet and it keeps me going.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Corsino C.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">When people ask for help and don\u2019t show gratitude&#8230; I let them be. I realize that they have their own journey. They have their own process. That has nothing to do with me. All I can do is show gratitude to them as much as I can\u2019t I can just practice gratitude in my waking and sleeping life everyday.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Charlene U.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I take a deep breath and remind myself that when someone doesn\u2019t show gratitude, it\u2019s either because they are unaware or they don\u2019t value the true meaning of what gratitude brings for the person applying it.<\/p>\n<p>Being grateful and showing gratitude keeps me humble.<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Alberto J.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It&#39;s not easy but sometimes we act and help someone because we empantise with the person or with the pain of this person. It&#39;s really important to feel grateful for help without receiving. But we explain your feelings with the best communication to sure also our frustration. It&#39;s essential help other person but never forget yourself.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Jonathan C.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Show them gratitude. If they see that you are grateful for things it might encourage them to show gratitude as well. Don&#39;t go out of your way too often for them, if they need help and you can provide that, do! But if you have stuff going on in your life that will interfere, do what&#39;s more rewarding.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Olivia Z.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I determine what my boundaries are and resolve to not cross them. Sometimes we don\u2019t do it for the gratitude, but being felt taken for granted means something needs to change. You have to teach people how to respect you.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Jessica L.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I\u2019d ask myself why I\u2019m offering the help: if I\u2019m offering just to receive thanks for it, that\u2019s not about offering them help, that\u2019s about me getting some need met, and that\u2019s not others\u2019 job to meet it. If I can\u2019t offer my help without needing praise or gratitude in return, that says something about me, not them. I\u2019d also ask if this is the best place for my energy. Is this really what I\u2019m meant to be doing? Am I using my time&#x2F;energy&#x2F;resources wisely?<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kiyona C. I would speak up and maybe ask them if they appreciate my help. 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