{"id":23086,"date":"2020-04-29T10:00:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T10:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-you-control-being-over-competitive\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T15:57:41","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T15:57:41","slug":"how-you-control-being-over-competitive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-you-control-being-over-competitive\/","title":{"rendered":"How you control being over competitive?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">\u05e0\u05d5\u05e2\u05dd \u05e1\u05e8\u05d5\u05e1\u05d9 N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Understand that you don&#39;t have to compare yourself to others too much. You want to succeed, no matter what score others get<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-2596039686\"><div id=\"thefa-620034999\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Take control of your life<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Amanda A.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">The first step is to recognize when you\u2019re starting to feel overcompetitive. From there, try to control your impulses to beat the other person (or whatever you\u2019re competing against) by restraining your emotions and keeping them in check. That way you won\u2019t let them control you. \ud83d\ude42<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Joseph U.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">If you think about the competition in a broader context you can determine how important it is then you can see how your reaction to the competition should be.  Think about the big picture. Is it more important for you to have a better relationship with the person you\u2019re competing against or is it more important for you to win? If you were playing a board game with your family or friends, do you want to destroy those relationship by winning it against them in a ruthless fashion or do you want to enjoy the game.  Define winning as having fun and building strong ties to your family versus a stupid objective of winning the game.  Healthy competition is good, just understand the end game in a broader context and make sure you are defining the \u201cwin\u201d properly.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u05e0\u05d5\u05e2\u05dd \u05e1\u05e8\u05d5\u05e1\u05d9 N. Understand that you don&#39;t have to compare yourself to others too much. You want to succeed, no matter what score others get Amanda A. The first step is to recognize when you\u2019re starting to feel overcompetitive. 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