{"id":22265,"date":"2020-04-08T10:21:33","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T10:21:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/is-it-your-purpose-or-someone-elses-your-trying-to-do-for-them\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:13:00","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:13:00","slug":"is-it-your-purpose-or-someone-elses-your-trying-to-do-for-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/is-it-your-purpose-or-someone-elses-your-trying-to-do-for-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it your purpose or someone else&#8217;s your trying to do for them?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Geneva F.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">That\u2019s a really interesting question. Your purpose is personal. It can be to help others, but making your sole focus helping another person, even your children, can be dangerous to both you and them. I\u2019d rather be motivated by my love of that person to guide me in helping them.<br \/>\nWhen it comes to your purpose, it has to be the meaning of YOUR life. That could be to lovingly raise a child or serve others. It could be to find and spread peace. Mine goes like this: Face my fears, be passionate, be creative, love with all my self, and search for and spread peace. How I do those things day to day changes, and sometimes I just do one thing. And that\u2019s great. That\u2019s still a life well lived and lived with purpose to me. Lots of times, loving and supporting my family counts for that thing, but I know if I was all alone tomorrow I could still enact my purpose. Good luck with figuring out what things give your day to day life meaning and beauty. I wish you well with all my love. -G<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-4132808556\"><div id=\"thefa-3766860085\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Stop procrastinating. It's time to take charge of your life.<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Emil N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">It is my purpose. I\u2019ve spent too long focusing on what I thought others expected of me. Lost that connection to deeper parts of who I am and what I want. Now remembering and ready to curiously uncover what is inside of my Self.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Mindy N.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">This is 100% for me, or trying to figure out how to do something good for myself. Make decisions for me, and not because its better for someone else I love. Maybe find what I actually want<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Geneva F. That\u2019s a really interesting question. Your purpose is personal. It can be to help others, but making your sole focus helping another person, even your children, can be dangerous to both you and them. I\u2019d rather be motivated by my love of that person to guide me in helping them. 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