{"id":17323,"date":"2019-10-16T00:14:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T00:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-can-we-stop-regretting-the-past-and-the-decisions-be-made-there\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T15:47:21","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T15:47:21","slug":"how-can-we-stop-regretting-the-past-and-the-decisions-be-made-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-can-we-stop-regretting-the-past-and-the-decisions-be-made-there\/","title":{"rendered":"How can we stop regretting the past and the decisions be made there?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Catharina Q.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">That\u2019s a good question because I too had obsessions bothering me.<br \/>\nAnd for me, the answer came in the jungle.<br \/>\n I was in the rainforest backpacking to see my daughter. I was 60. Luckily, another traveler passed by with a book called \u201cThe Power of Now\u201d. I recentered myself to the now, saw the beauty in it, and relaxed. Later when I was blinded by a scratched eye, I went into the now of the pain instead of  running from it, made it out of the jungle to S.A. Jose where I had eye surgery. Staying in the now saved my life <\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-698958776\"><div id=\"thefa-3447899203\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Don't let a good life slip away<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Lillian F.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">For as long as we regret the past or worry about the future, we are not living in the present. It is up to us to take responsibility for our actions and to clean up anything that has impacted others and then it is up to us to let go of the constraints we have allowed our memories and thoughts to have over us. If we can imagine everything as perfect and complete, this way. What does that open up for us?<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Silene S.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">One \u261d\ufe0f of the important thing to do when the regrading is following you it\u2019s make peace \u270c\ufe0f with it let the past behind and try to take a lesson from what you did wrong or regret and next time if you are about to make a decision listen to your heart if you feel conforte it\u2019s okay to take that decision if not you\u2019ll feel uncomfortable \ud83d\ude23 so that means you shouldn\u2019t take that decision.There is a question \u201cwhat is the consequences or benefits that decision is going to make in the future to me or the people around me?\u201d<br \/>\nLaw of Kharma <\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Catharina Q. That\u2019s a good question because I too had obsessions bothering me. And for me, the answer came in the jungle. 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