{"id":14167,"date":"2019-05-22T01:43:00","date_gmt":"2019-05-22T01:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-cope-with-times-where-you-act-out-of-line-with-your-values-priorities-leading-to-negative-consequences-where-you-feel-youve-let-yourself-down\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T15:30:54","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T15:30:54","slug":"how-do-you-cope-with-times-where-you-act-out-of-line-with-your-values-priorities-leading-to-negative-consequences-where-you-feel-youve-let-yourself-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefabulous.co\/qa\/how-do-you-cope-with-times-where-you-act-out-of-line-with-your-values-priorities-leading-to-negative-consequences-where-you-feel-youve-let-yourself-down\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you cope with times where you act out of line with your values\/priorities leading to negative consequences where you feel you\u2019ve let yourself down?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Nicky W.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I realize that I can\u2019t do it on my own, and then I do lots of homework on the Catholic Church and find out it\u2019s actually what it says it is. Then I go to confession and Jesus takes care of the rest \ud83d\ude1c<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thefa-test2 thefa-entity-placement\" id=\"thefa-3939914927\"><div id=\"thefa-4146738834\"><style>.thefa-test2 {margin-bottom: 24px;}<\/style>\r\n<div class=\"banner-content-position light-viol\">\r\n<div class=\"banner-text max400\">Don't let a good life slip away<\/div>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/start.thefabulous.co\/onboarding\/fabulous-initial?utm_source=community-qa&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=afterfirstquestionoranswer-purple-achievegoals\" class=\"banner-cta red w-inline-block\">\r\n<div>Start today<\/div><\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Roland Q.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I analyze where I did wrong and why. I try to change things, so that will never happen again.<br \/>\nI say &quot;I&#39;m sorry&quot; to the ones that might have been affected, and try to give them &#39;justice&#39; or closure or whatever they want.<\/p>\n<p>If I regret something, it often includes other people.<br \/>\nTo take responsibility and acknowledge what I did and how it felt to them is very scary. But not doung it is worse, since it will never go away.<br \/>\nAfter clearing things out I feel much better, and the other perspn feels much better.<br \/>\nUsually, the bond between us gets stronger after such a thing. <\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Hazel S.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">When i act out of line with my priorities i always feel guilty because i feel that i wasted precious time after doing it<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Allen Y.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I\u2019m trying to meditate and show myself the same compassion I would offer my friends<br \/>\nDon\u2019t beat yourself up<br \/>\nDon\u2019t ruminate on negativity<br \/>\nCan you identify the triggers the other person sparked and the next time practice silence and space<br \/>\nTry not to react but to respond<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Domenico U.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I recognize the misstep and find a way to fix the behavior. I see if there is an underlying reason for the misstep and fix that.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Christina E.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I no longer allow those things to even enter my mind. But in the past, I forgive myself and immediately move forward. It\u2019s actually very easy to do<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Na L Z.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I try to fix it the next week, like once I did something wrong, I have that on mind but aside and I plan to revert that bad act in the next situation created by myself.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Ramona J.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">We are humans and not perfect. first of, i keep my head up and remind myself why I am doing this. Example I have my dumbbell and books all over my room. If a day or two I don\u2019t work out or read the moment I set my eyes on any of them stuff I use for my activities something hits me and I go back in line. In a nutshell, keep your activity stuff close, Incase you falling out of Line they can remind you. <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Marina O.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">Your emotions are telling you something. When you have the urge to do something that doesn\u2019t align with your values, instead of focusing on the regret or shaming yourself, think about what your body was telling you. WHY did you do that? What were you prioritizing in the moment? Respect that that reason is important, then think about a healthier way to channel that need, and promise yourself to do differently in the future. Show yourself some empathy. Remember that you are human and the world is not black and white.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"single-answer\">\n<div class=\"who-answered\">Don O.<\/div>\n<div class=\"detailed-answer\">I\u2019d love to know the answer to this. I just start again. I do believe over time and with patience I get a little better <\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nicky W. I realize that I can\u2019t do it on my own, and then I do lots of homework on the Catholic Church and find out it\u2019s actually what it says it is. Then I go to confession and Jesus takes care of the rest \ud83d\ude1c Roland Q. I analyze where I did wrong and why. 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